How to create a great marriage after marital issues that included suffering and difficulties in regards to absent spouses and emotional abuse whether it was intentional or not. Must be a research paper, not self help.Include the 5 Love Needs by Barbara RosbergShowing the importance of the different types of intimacy and closeness.Bonding with your spouse allows an open line of communication.Bonding/ intimacy allows for a closeness that is necessary.Five Love Languages by Gary D. ChapmanAll people feel love in different ways. Determine how you feel loved and your spouse and actively pursue the filling of each other’s love bucket.Learning to Let GoIf you want to move forward, you have to learn to let go of the past.If there are any co-dependency issues, you have to learn to let your spouse let go and make their own decisions to allow them to grow or vice-versa.Put Christ into both of your lives and make him first. Christ should be the center of our lives. If we place him first in the marriage he will help your relationship flourish. With God as the center of the marriage there is nothing that can get in the way.