“I am not strong because I can force others to do what I wish. . . , but because I can allow them to do what they wish.”—James P. Carse      When Mary came to the playground and found everybody else busy, she stood by the side and watched. Mary is a popular student in the sixth grade known for her bullying practices. Everybody feared her and at this time, we expected her to act violently. However, she just stood by and watched the game. With time, she seemed to be enjoying it and even began cheering. After the game, everybody wanted to be in her company.